Politics at the Holiday Table: A Guide to Charitable Conversations!
Friends, the election is coming up, and the passion for politics is thriving! While many think it's best to avoid these topics during Thanksgiving, why not turn it into an opportunity to bring the family closer together? As the old saying goes, “En la mesa y en el juego, se conoce al caballero.” So, let's learn how we can have healthy political conversations while enjoying our turkey and tamales!
Every year, my husband’s large extended family gathers at his parents’ house. Over the years, I've learned some valuable lessons on how to talk about politics without ruining the party. Here are my tips for having charitable conversations:
Respect above all, just like our abuelos taught us!
In our culture, respect is fundamental. Political beliefs are an expression of our faith and values. But they are not who we are, nor are they our most profound identity. Remember that you are talking to your family, not strangers on the internet. Keep a kind and respectful tone, as if you were talking to your santa abuela. It's not about changing anyone's opinion, but about understanding each other better..
Be a well-formed and informed Catholic!
We know there are many news sources, from Univision to CNN in Spanish. But don't stick to just one source. Research independent news sources and learn about what the Church says on these matters to form your own opinion! When talking about topics like immigration or climate change, use real data, not just what you heard on TV. Remember, information is power, use it wisely!
Be open-minded, like when you first tried a habanero pepper!
Being open to new ideas doesn't mean you'll change your way of thinking, but it does mean that you're willing to listen. In our culture, we value communication and dialogue. Actively listen to your uncles, cousins, and grandparents. You might learn something new or better understand why they think differently. The diversity of opinions can be as rich as the diversity of our holiday dishes!
Be a good guest/host: know when to change the topic!
Sometimes, it is best to avoid politics and enjoy the food and company. If you find the conversation is getting more heated than chiles rellenos, suggest talking about something lighter. Remember that these gatherings are about celebrating our family togetherness and our culture. There are so many wonderful things to talk about!
Use humor, our best secret weapon!
If things get tense, a good joke can save the day. Humor is an important part of our culture and can help ease tensions. Laugh at yourself and the situations, not at people or their beliefs.
Focus on what unites us, not what divides us!
At the end of the day, we all want the best for our families and communities. Talk about the values we share hard work, family, and our Catholic faith. These are the things that really matter.
Look, family and politics are important, but our family togetherness is even more important. Let's use these conversations to grow together, not to separate ourselves. Remember if Jesus could navigate a dinner with Judas, He will certainly give you the grace to navigate hot topics at your family gatherings!
Have a happy Thanksgiving filled with love, laughter, and chartitable conversation! And don’t forget to save me some flan.
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